[FEA] Add KV-cache-aware Triton orchestration and move offload/reap off the inference critical path`

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The current Triton AOTI deployment runs a single stateful model instance and disables Triton scheduler-level batching:

• max_batch_size: 0
• instance_group count: 1

The exported forward embeds lookup, allocation, onboarding launch/wait, and HSTU compute in one AOTI call: ExportKVCachedInferenceRankingGR.forward. Offload/reap operators exist in the C++ runtime, but they are not part of this serving forward path. If they are added directly to the same AOTI call, FlexKV RPC, GPU-to-host transfer, and task reaping can extend the request critical path and block the only model instance.

The broad scheduling problem is already tracked by #461. This issue should be a concrete implementation subtask focused on separating the KV-cache lifecycle from the compute graph.

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Start with examples/hstu/inference_aoti/triton_aoti/hstu_gr_ranking_kvcache/config.pbtxt and examples/hstu/model/export_kvcached_inference_ranking_gr.py, then inspect the existing C++ offload/reap runtime and related scheduling work in #461. Define a lifecycle that separates KV-cache offload and reap from the exported compute forward. Done means the serving path no longer blocks the model instance on those operations while preserving KV-cache behavior.