[FEA] Expand clang-tidy checks

We discussed clang-tidy during the cuDF brown bag session today. We looked at a list of suggested clang-tidy checks from @vuule and @davidwendt. These clang-tidy checks had group consensus that we should try enabling them:
- [ ] cppcoreguidelines-init-variables
- [ ] cppcoreguidelines-narrowing-conversions
- [ ] cppcoreguidelines-no-malloc
- [ ] cppcoreguidelines-pro-type-member-init
- [ ] cppcoreguidelines-slicing
- [ ] cppcoreguidelines-rvalue-param-not-moved
- [ ] cppcoreguidelines-virtual-class-destructor
- [ ] bugprone-copy-constructor-init
- [ ] bugprone-dangling-handle
- [ ] bugprone-fold-init-type
- [ ] bugprone-implicit-widening-of-multiplication-result
- [ ] bugprone-move-forwarding-reference
- [ ] bugprone-redundant-branch-condition
- [ ] bugprone-return-const-ref-from-parameter
- [ ] bugprone-too-small-loop-variable
- [ ] bugprone-unchecked-optional-access
- [ ] bugprone-use-after-move
- [ ] misc-const-correctness
- [ ] misc-definitions-in-headers
- [ ] misc-use-anonymous-namespace
- [ ] misc-use-internal-linkage

Once #17407 is merged, we can add these gradually over time. Please edit this checklist as checks are added!