Consider SonicMOE kernel comparison for potentially better IO/activation memory management

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SonicMOE has some interesting open source kernels for fine-grained MOE which claim to reduce memory and improves throughput significantly on Hopper. We should see what kernels can be adapted from here for use in TransformerEngine to improve speed and memory usage: https://arxiv.org/abs/2512.14080 Claimed to reduce activation memory by up to 45% improve compute throughput by up to 1.86X on Hopper.

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Benchmark the kernels and see if there are any easy gains to be had here in TransfromerEngine, specifically with the FusedRouter etc.

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