Runtime events with support for custom handlers

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## 🚀 Feature

### Motivation

For large scale Lightning deployments, it is very useful to collect certain types of trainer runtime event into an analytics system, so engineers can monitor the overall healthiness of the deployment, as well as obtain useful information for troubleshooting failed/stuck jobs.

Currently, Lightning mainly relies on logging for communicating trainer runtime information to the users. However, logging is not ideal for large scale deployments for the following reasons:
- Many training jobs in large scale deployments are automated, long-running batch jobs. It is impractical to expect the users to notice certain warnings (e.g. API deprecation warning) in a timely fashion.
- The desirable amount of events for debuggability purposes may be too verbose for logging.
- Logging is generally less structured.

### Pitch

- Introduce the concept of runtime event in Lightning
- Emit appropriate runtime events at appropriate places (e.g. deprecated API usage)
- Provide a mechanism to register custom handlers for runtime events
- Ideally, we'd like a mechanism to transparently register default handlers (unlike `Plugin` which requires users to explicitly pass to `Trainer`) which don’t belong in the core trainer directly. This could make Lightning more attractive for larger organizations that relies on shared tooling.
- The backend registration mechanism of `fsspec` is an ideal candidate solution: https://filesystem-spec.readthedocs.io/en/latest/developer.html#implementing-a-backend

### Alternatives

### Additional context
A similar prior feature request: https://github.com/PyTorchLightning/pytorch-lightning/issues/8186

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