multiple in-place ops to func's arg tensors that are a view of another

Looks good to me, I wonder if we want a note about aliases as args?

```python
def f(a, b):
return a.exp_().sin_() + b.exp_().sin_()

a = torch.randn(5, 5)
f(a, a)
```

_Originally posted by @t-vi in https://github.com/Lightning-AI/lightning-thunder/pull/723#pullrequestreview-2165267499_

rel: #657

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