Optimise acceleration structures memory overlaps validation for indirect and host build commands

After https://github.com/KhronosGroup/Vulkan-ValidationLayers/pull/9516 gets in:

Make similar changes where relevant, have a look at `PreCallValidateCmdBuildAccelerationStructuresIndirectKHR` and `PreCallValidateBuildAccelerationStructuresKHR`, they both use `ValidateAccelerationStructuresMemoryAlisasing`, that does memory overlap checks the old way, and does not skip validation for sparse buffers.