Auto-retry transactions only in case of lock-waits and dead-locks

This [commit](https://github.com/JetBrains/Exposed/commit/15a30c23933b87fa72d01f68dde6b0e165c32812) allows to retry when transaction fails. But it retries for any reason, even when table doesn't exist, which is useless because in next attemps it has no chance to complete successfully.

There shoud be a condition to check if the exception allows a retry of the transaction before.