[Bug] 使用Turbomind启动服务，当并发过多的时候会导致OOM，然后服务直接自杀了，希望能改进成OOM之前判断是否能处理，不能处理就一个个处理，不要服务直接自杀，非常感谢

### Checklist

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- [ ] 2. The bug has not been fixed in the latest version.
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### Describe the bug

Failed to find a feasible kernel in the cache, will dispatch by heuristic.
[TM][ERROR] CUDA runtime error: out of memory /lmdeploy/src/turbomind/core/allocator.cc:49

### Reproduction

Failed to find a feasible kernel in the cache, will dispatch by heuristic.
[TM][ERROR] CUDA runtime error: out of memory /lmdeploy/src/turbomind/core/allocator.cc:49

### Environment

```Shell
0.8.0
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### Error traceback

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