[Feature] Prefill/Decoding disaggregation substantially boosts throughput

### Motivation

**PD disaggregation** is said to provide an 2-4x throughput improvement. See [DistServe](https://hao-ai-lab.github.io/blogs/distserve/) for reference. They are planning to integrate the strategy into vllm.

Please consider integration into LMDeploy. Many concurrent works have also emerged, like Splitwise [38], TetriInfer [27] and DéjàVu [49] cited by DistServe.

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