Tables column names overriden

Not a bug per se as it seems a deisgn choice, but the introduction of the override of column names in `DataTableOptions` in v0.22.9:
https://github.com/GenieFramework/StippleUI.jl/blob/584f88f756b4b35ec292811eac3db613f1b10362/src/Tables.jl#L158
happened to be undesirable for our applications. I would personally favor in general limited stylistic side effects from functions by default. Could adding a kw arg in `DataTableOptions` for specifying custom column names as `Vector{String}` cover those custom names needs, or having an opt-in "clean_colnames" boolean indicator?

Start at src/Tables.jl around line 158 and inspect DataTableOptions and the column-name override introduced in v0.22.9. Compare the current behavior with the requested custom-name or opt-in alternatives; done requires an agreed option for preserving or configuring column names and relevant test coverage if available.

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