example/: kitchen-sink demo cannot be installed, and its Suspense path cannot run

Two pre-existing defects in `example/`, both surfaced by @armando-navarro while reviewing #781 and both verified against `main`. Neither was caused by that PR and neither was fixed by it, so they are filed here rather than left in a review thread on a merged PR.

They are filed together because the fix for the second requires the first: there is no way to check that the Suspense path runs without being able to install the demo.

## 1. The demo cannot be installed as checked out

`example/package.json` depends on:

```json
"reactfire": "file:../reactfire-4.0.1.tgz"
```

That tarball is not in the repository, so `npm install` inside `example/` fails from a clean checkout. Whatever produced it was never committed and no script regenerates it.

Worth deciding rather than patching blindly: the fix could be a `file:..` reference to the workspace, a documented `npm pack` step, or a published version range. They differ in whether the demo is meant to exercise the local working tree or the last release.

## 2. The Suspense path cannot run, on either the old instructions or the new ones

`example/index.tsx` ships a commented-out Suspense variant. #781 corrected the comment to say the path does not run as checked in, which is accurate, but the underlying reason is worth recording.

`example/package.json` pins the runtime to React 17 while the types are already on 18:

```json
"react": "^17.0.0",
"react-dom": "^17.0.0",
"@types/react": "^18.0.15",
"@types/react-dom": "^18.0.6",
"typescript": "^4.7.4"
```

That skew produces two distinct failures.

- **`example/index.tsx:45`**, the commented `ReactDOM.createRoot(rootElement)`. On react-dom 17 this is `undefined` at runtime, and under `@types/react-dom@18` it is also a type error, because `createRoot` is declared in `client.d.ts` and not on the root entry. The example's `build` is `tsc && vite build`, so uncommenting it breaks the build as well as the app.
- **`example/withSuspense/Firestore.tsx:2`**, which imports `useTransition` (used at `:87`). This one **type-checks cleanly** because `@types/react` is already 18, and fails only at runtime on React 17. It is the more dangerous of the two for exactly that reason.

Those are the only React 18 APIs anywhere under `example/`, which bounds the work:

```
example/index.tsx:45: // ReactDOM.createRoot(rootElement).render(
example/withSuspense/Firestore.tsx:2: import { useState, useTransition } from 'react';
example/withSuspense/Firestore.tsx:87: const [isPending, startTransition] = useTransition();
```

**The instructions that #781 replaced did not work either.** Verified on `react@experimental`: `createRoot`, `unstable_createRoot` and `render` are all undefined on the root `react-dom` entry. So this is long-standing, and #781 regressed nothing.

## What the fix involves

1. Bump `react` and `react-dom` to 18 in `example/package.json`, **and the lockfile**.
2. Import `createRoot` from **`react-dom/client`**, not the root entry. It is not on the root entry under `@types/react-dom@18` either, so the currently commented specifier would still be wrong after the bump.
3. Word the comment as **replacing** the existing `ReactDOM.render` call, not uncommenting alongside it. Leaving both produces React 18's `You are calling ReactDOMClient.createRoot() on a container that was previously passed to ReactDOM.render()` warning.
4. Rename `ConcurrentModeApp` / `NonConcurrentModeApp`. "Concurrent mode" has not been the name for this since React 18 shipped, and #781 removed that framing from the surrounding prose but deliberately left the identifiers, since renaming them is not a comments-only change.

#781 also deliberately left the commented `ReactDOM.createRoot` specifier uncorrected. Fixing it in isolation would make the block look runnable, which is the opposite of what the caveat it sits under is for. It should be corrected as part of the bump, not before.

## Not a ReactFire bug

Worth stating explicitly so this is not mistaken for a library problem: **ReactFire itself works fine on React 17.** @armando-navarro ran `useObservable` with `suspense: true` under the legacy render path and it suspends, resolves and keeps updating. The React 18 requirement belongs to the demo, not to the library.

Refs #781.

Start with example/package.json and its lockfile, then inspect example/index.tsx:45 and example/withSuspense/Firestore.tsx:2,87. First make a clean install in example/ and decide whether the demo should use the workspace, a generated tarball, or a published version; done means the dependencies install and the Suspense path builds and runs without the React 17/18 failures described.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.