revive "simulator: more arguments"

make #432 work with MinGW/msvcrt (vs GCC/libc), where there is no `argp` implementation readily available.

- https://github.com/FOME-Tech/fome-fw/pull/432#issuecomment-2269878680
> uhh, looks like this doesn't work on the windows build...
- https://github.com/FOME-Tech/fome-fw/commit/1452a1dcc74d344a39789f93527eeacb53e0e943
> Revert "simulator: more arguments (#432)"

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Here are a couple of things I found:
- https://github.com/tom42/argp-standalone
- https://github.com/divisionind/libargp-mingw
- https://www.boost.org/doc/libs/1_53_0/doc/html/program_options.html
- seems very heavy solution