No connection to people in lobby, even though it shows connected.

In some games / lobbies the game shows I am connected to everyone and the host launches the game. Then the instant the game launches I am ingame and see a connection timer that is as long as when the person joined the lobby.

This is right as it launched.

When checking the ice adapter, it actually shows that I am NOT connected to this person, but the lobby shows I am connected. It does not happen every time, maybe 10% of the time or less. It is mostly to russians.

Not sure if logs help, but I can attach if needed.