Allow outdated blacklisted mods to be whitelisted and updated in one go when fulfilling another mod's dependencies

### I am planning on implementing this myself

No

### Describe your request

If a mod that has failed to load depends on a mod that is both outdated and blacklisted, Everest takes two restarts to solve the issue (one to whitelist the mod, then one to actually update the mod).

Making it so all dependency issues are checked at once would make this already bothersome part of loading mods faster and easier.

### Additional context

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