[Feature Request] Add a switch to the default behavior of clicking the table header,close sort or filter

### Existing Component
是

### Component Name
el-table

### Description
当同时使用自定义表头和列排序 过滤器两个之一时，点击自定义表头时不希望排序或者弹出过滤器

When you use one of the custom header and column sort or filter at the same time, you do not want to sort or pop up the filter when you click the custom header