ncar_ccpp/schemes/utilities copied unconditionally but dependencies in .meta are not parsed

### What happened?

If a scheme under `utilities` has `dependencies =` declared in `.meta` it will be invisible and cause a build failure in all configurations that do not manually use the dependency elsewhere in some way.

### What are the steps to reproduce the bug?

Make `set_surface_coupling_vars.F90` depend on `radiation_utils.F90` for example, and set `dependencies = ../rrtmgp/utils/radiation_utils.F90`

Try to build FHS94 or an unrelated compset that has nothing to do with set_surface_coupling_vars

Compile error

### What CAM-SIMA hash were you using?

sima0_17_000

### What machine were you running CAM-SIMA on?

CISL machine (e.g. cheyenne)

### What compiler were you using?

GNU

### Path to a case directory, if applicable

_No response_

### Will you be addressing this bug yourself?

Any Software Engineer can do this

### Extra info

_No response_

Start by tracing how ncar_ccpp/schemes/utilities are copied and how .meta files are parsed. Reproduce the issue with set_surface_coupling_vars.F90 depending on ../rrtmgp/utils/radiation_utils.F90, then verify that an unrelated FHS94 build succeeds without manually using the dependency.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.