Add error handling for when suite_name /= suite XML name

### What is the feature/what would you like to discuss?

@jimmielin ran into this issue where if your SDF file name is `suite_.xml` but the name of the suite therein is `suitename2`, capgen and SIMA will build everything with the discrepancy without erroring and then you'll get a "suite not found" error at runtime.

Instead, we should add a check during the CAM-SIMA build process that, after you grab the XML file based on the suite specified in CAM_CONFIG_OPTS, confirms that the suite name inside matches as well.

### Is there anyone in particular you want to be part of this conversation?

_No response_

### Will this change (regression test) answers?

No

### Will you be implementing this enhancement yourself?

Any Software Engineer can do this