[Feature][connector][mysql] The connector supports MySQL Driver 8.x

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### Description

When submitting a Flink job, all the JARs under the Flink lib directory are loaded. When there is a mysql-connector-java-8.xx.xx.jar in the lib directory, the MySQL connector consumes timestamp data as LocalDateTime type. Due to the lack of compatibility in the connector, it fails to consume the data, resulting in errors in the job.

Therefore, adding logic to accommodate the mysql-connector-java-8.xx.xx.jar driver.

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