[Bug] [doris-x] sink-遇到源端update时，会出现重复统计

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### What happened

mysql-binlog->kafka->doris时，源端mysql遇到update语句时，目标端会出现重复数据。

源端操作：
insert into test_binlog(id,cname,sale_amt,ttime)
values(154,'hua',10.20,now());
insert into test_binlog(id,cname,sale_amt,ttime)
values(155,'hua',10.20,now());
insert into test_binlog(id,cname,sale_amt,ttime)
values(156,'hua',10.20,now());

目标端效果：
mysql> select * from test_sink;
+------------+-------+-----------+-----------+----------+----------+
| tdate | cname | area_name | addr_name | sale_num | sale_amt |
+------------+-------+-----------+-----------+----------+----------+
| 2023-10-24 | hua | 广东省 | 湛江市 | 3 | 30.60 |
+------------+-------+-----------+-----------+----------+----------+
1 row in set (0.01 sec)

源端操作：
delete from test_binlog where id=154;
update test_binlog set sale_amt=20.20 where id=155;

目标端效果：
mysql> select * from test_sink;
+------------+-------+-----------+-----------+----------+----------+
| tdate | cname | area_name | addr_name | sale_num | sale_amt |
+------------+-------+-----------+-----------+----------+----------+
| 2023-10-24 | hua | 广东省 | 湛江市 | 2 | 30.40 |
| 2023-10-24 | hua | 广东省 | 湛江市 | 1 | 10.20 |
+------------+-------+-----------+-----------+----------+----------+
2 rows in set (0.01 sec)

遇到update，则多出一条记录。

### What you expected to happen

不应出现重复统计数据

### How to reproduce

一、mysqlbinlog->kafka配置：

[root@t-hadoop01 binlog]# cat binlog_kafka.sql
CREATE TABLE source
(
id int,
cname varchar,
sale_amt decimal(18,2),
ttime timestamp
) WITH (
'connector' = 'binlog-x'
,'username' = 'root'
,'password' = 'xxxxx'
,'cat' = 'insert,delete,update'
,'url' = 'jdbc:mysql://172.16.44.83:3306/ambari?useSSL=false'
,'host' = '172.16.44.83'
,'port' = '3306'
,'table' = 'ambari.test_binlog'
,'timestamp-format.standard' = 'SQL'
);

CREATE TABLE sink
(
id int,
cname varchar,
sale_amt decimal(18,2),
ttime timestamp
) WITH (
'connector' = 'kafka-x'
,'topic' = 'flinkcdc-mysql'
,'properties.bootstrap.servers' = '172.16.56.254:34715'
,'value.format' = 'debezium-json'
);

insert into sink
select *
from source u;

二、kafka->doris配置：
[root@t-hadoop01 doris]# cat dim_doris.sql
CREATE TABLE source (
id int,
cname varchar,
sale_amt decimal(18,2),
ttime timestamp,
PROCTIME AS PROCTIME()
) WITH (
'connector' = 'kafka-x'
,'topic' = 'flinkcdc-mysql'
,'properties.bootstrap.servers' = '172.16.56.254:34715'
,'scan.startup.mode' = 'latest-offset'
,'value.format' = 'debezium-json'
);

CREATE TABLE test_side (
id int,
cname varchar,
area_name varchar,
addr_name varchar,
PRIMARY KEY (cname) NOT ENFORCED
) WITH (
'connector' = 'doris-x',
'url' = 'jdbc:mysql://172.16.44.86:9030',
'schema' = 'dorisdb',
'table-name' = 'test_side',
'username' = 'root',
'password' = '',
'lookup.cache-type' = 'lru',
'lookup.cache-period' = '3000',
'lookup.cache.max-rows' = '20000',
'lookup.cache.ttl' = '3000'
);

CREATE TABLE sink
(
tdate varchar,
cname varchar,
area_name varchar,
addr_name varchar,
sale_num bigint,
sale_amt decimal(18,2),
PRIMARY KEY (tdate,cname) NOT ENFORCED
) WITH (
'password' = '',
'connector' = 'doris-x',
'sink.buffer-flush.interval' = '1000',
'sink.all-replace' = 'true',
'sink.buffer-flush.max-rows' = '100',
'schema' = 'dorisdb',
'table-name' = 'test_sink',
'sink.parallelism' = '1',
'url' = 'jdbc:mysql://172.16.44.86:9030',
'username' = 'root'
);

INSERT INTO sink
SELECT
date_format(a.ttime,'yyyy-MM-dd') as tdate,
a.cname,
max(b.area_name) as area_name,
max(b.addr_name) as addr_name,
count(*) as sale_num,
sum(a.sale_amt) as sale_amt
FROM source a
left join test_side FOR SYSTEM_TIME AS OF a.PROCTIME AS b
on (a.cname=b.cname)
group by date_format(a.ttime,'yyyy-MM-dd'),a.cname;

三、表结构信息：
3.1、源端mysql表：
CREATE TABLE `test_binlog` (
`id` int(11) DEFAULT NULL,
`cname` varchar(50) DEFAULT NULL,
`sale_amt` decimal(18,2) DEFAULT NULL,
`ttime` datetime DEFAULT NULL
) ENGINE=InnoDB DEFAULT CHARSET=utf8;

3.2、目标端doris表：
维度表结构及其数据：
CREATE TABLE `test_side` (
`id` int(11) NULL COMMENT 'id',
`cname` varchar(50) NULL COMMENT 'xxx',
`area_name` varchar(50) NULL COMMENT 'xxx',
`addr_name` varchar(50) NULL COMMENT 'xxx'
) ENGINE=OLAP
DUPLICATE KEY(`id`, `cname`)
COMMENT 'test1表'
DISTRIBUTED BY HASH(`id`, `cname`) BUCKETS 5
PROPERTIES (
"replication_allocation" = "tag.location.default: 1",
"in_memory" = "false",
"storage_format" = "V2",
"disable_auto_compaction" = "false"
);

insert into test_side(id,cname,area_name,addr_name) values(1,'war','广东省','珠海市');
insert into test_side(id,cname,area_name,addr_name) values(2,'pha','广东省','广州市');
insert into test_side(id,cname,area_name,addr_name) values(3,'hua','广东省','湛江市');

sink表结构：
create table test_sink(tdate varchar(10) comment 'id',cname varchar(50) comment '名称',area_name varchar(50) comment 'xx',addr_name varchar(50) comment 'xx',sale_num bigint,sale_amt decimal(18,2)) duplicate key(tdate,cname) comment 'test表' distributed by hash(tdate,cname) buckets 5 PROPERTIES ("replication_num" = "1");

四、执行：
1、sh bin/chunjun-local.sh -job chunjun-examples/sql/binlog/binlog_kafka.sql
2、sh bin/chunjun-local.sh -job chunjun-examples/sql/doris/dim_doris.sql

五、问题重现：
mysql-binlog->kafka->doris时，源端mysql遇到update语句时，目标端会出现重复数据。

源端操作：
insert into test_binlog(id,cname,sale_amt,ttime)
values(154,'hua',10.20,now());
insert into test_binlog(id,cname,sale_amt,ttime)
values(155,'hua',10.20,now());
insert into test_binlog(id,cname,sale_amt,ttime)
values(156,'hua',10.20,now());

目标端效果：
mysql> select * from test_sink;
+------------+-------+-----------+-----------+----------+----------+
| tdate | cname | area_name | addr_name | sale_num | sale_amt |
+------------+-------+-----------+-----------+----------+----------+
| 2023-10-24 | hua | 广东省 | 湛江市 | 3 | 30.60 |
+------------+-------+-----------+-----------+----------+----------+
1 row in set (0.01 sec)

源端操作：
delete from test_binlog where id=154;
update test_binlog set sale_amt=20.20 where id=155;

目标端效果：
mysql> select * from test_sink;
+------------+-------+-----------+-----------+----------+----------+
| tdate | cname | area_name | addr_name | sale_num | sale_amt |
+------------+-------+-----------+-----------+----------+----------+
| 2023-10-24 | hua | 广东省 | 湛江市 | 2 | 30.40 |
| 2023-10-24 | hua | 广东省 | 湛江市 | 1 | 10.20 |
+------------+-------+-----------+-----------+----------+----------+
2 rows in set (0.01 sec)

遇到update，则多出一条记录。

### Anything else

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### Version

master

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