[Bug] [chunjun-core] failedConsumedCounter达到阈值后不能停止任务

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### What happened

如图当failedConsumedCounter达到阈值时会抛出异常NoRestartException，但是该异常在子线程中抛出，无法影响到主线程，导致即使达到阈值，flink job也无法因为异常结束

### What you expected to happen

failedConsumedCounter达到阈值后 flink任务可以正常结束

### How to reproduce

使用kafka connector 设置dirty-data.max-rows=100，dirty-data.max-collect-failed-rows=5，在源端造10条脏数据，任务无法正常结束

### Anything else

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### Version

master

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- [ ] Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

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