Windows / RTX 5070 Ti: comfy-aimdo 0.5.3 missing get_simple_vram_headroom after ComfyUI 0.35.0 update; rollback to 0.34.6 works

## System

- Windows 10 build 26200.9168
- NVIDIA RTX 5070 Ti 16 GB
- Python 3.13.12
- PyTorch 2.12.1+cu130
- ComfyUI 0.35.0
- comfy-aimdo 0.5.3
- comfy-kitchen 0.2.33
- comfyui-frontend-package 1.51.10

## Problem

After updating to ComfyUI 0.35.0, ComfyUI failed during startup inside `comfy_aimdo.control.init()`.

The traceback ended with:

```text
File "...site-packages\comfy_aimdo\control.py", line 115, in init
lib.get_simple_vram_headroom.argtypes = []

AttributeError: function 'get_simple_vram_headroom' not found.
Did you mean: 'set_simple_vram_headroom'?
```

This occurred before custom nodes were involved.

## Interesting detail

The installed package already reported:

```text
comfy-aimdo==0.5.3
```

I force-reinstalled the **same version**:

```text
pip install --force-reinstall --no-cache-dir --no-deps comfy-aimdo==0.5.3
```

After reinstalling the same version, this test succeeded:

```text
comfy-aimdo version: 0.5.3
AIMDO initialization OK
```

This suggests the Python wrapper and native library may have become mismatched during the update/install process.

## Additional behavior

After repairing AIMDO, ComfyUI 0.35.0 could reach server startup when launched directly in safe mode, but Comfy Desktop still failed to complete startup normally.

I then performed a completely clean standalone installation of ComfyUI 0.35.0 and still had startup/loading problems.

I installed **ComfyUI 0.34.6** as another clean standalone installation on the same computer with the same GPU and Desktop application.

**0.34.6 works normally.**

Its working stack reports:

```text
ComfyUI version: 0.34.6
comfy-aimdo version: 0.4.15
comfy-kitchen version: 0.2.31
comfyui-frontend-package version: 1.49.6
```

The 0.34.6 installation repeatedly passes clean safe-mode startup tests and detects the RTX 5070 Ti correctly.

## Reproduction / comparison

```text
ComfyUI 0.35.0 -> startup problems
ComfyUI 0.34.6 -> works
```

Both were tested on the same Windows installation and RTX 5070 Ti.

## Workaround

Rolling back to ComfyUI 0.34.6 has restored normal operation.

I can provide full startup logs or test additional AIMDO builds if useful.

I am not certain whether the remaining 0.35.0 startup behavior is caused specifically by AIMDO, the 0.35.0 dependency bundle, or Desktop integration, but the initial missing native symbol appears to be a concrete packaging/version-consistency issue.

Start with comfy_aimdo/control.py around line 115 and compare the Python wrapper used by comfy-aimdo 0.5.3 with the native library exports in the reported ComfyUI 0.35.0 stack. Reproduce the missing get_simple_vram_headroom symbol on Windows, then verify that a clean installation or reinstall consistently provides the expected symbol and preserves the successful 0.34.6 behavior.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.