[Feature Request]: Option to disable selection highlight when moving nodes

### Is there an existing issue for this?

- [x] I have searched the existing issues and checked the recent builds/commits

### What would your feature do ?

I like to place some nodes very close to each other ( one grid line apart ), like this:


But the selection highlight it's too visually confusing, when we are trying to focus on the snap to grid feedback. 


Also, after moving the nodes, they could be automatically deselected.
This would also hide the selection highlight and the node toolbox.
I always need to click in the canvas to deselect, after moving, to check the node placement.


### Proposed workflow

User options to:
- disable selection highlight while moving
- deselect nodes after moving

### Additional information

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