Exclude unnecessary files from Windows standalone releases

Extraction time and file size of Windows standalone releases can be improved by excluding some unnecessary files.

`__pycache__/`, `*.py[co]` - these will be created on first run so don't need to be packaged

`include/` and `*.h`, and `*.lib` - some Python packages include C++ headers and libraries, these aren't required and increase extraction time

[`Nuitka`](https://github.com/Nuitka/Nuitka)'s anti-bloat rules would be the next step.

```
-x"r!__pycache__/" -x"r!*.pyc" -x"r!*.pyo" -x"r!*.h" -x"r!include/" -x"r!*.lib"
```
In [`windows_release_package.yml`](https://github.com/comfyanonymous/ComfyUI/blob/master/.github/workflows/windows_release_package.yml#L85) and [`windows_release_nightly_pytorch.yml`](https://github.com/comfyanonymous/ComfyUI/blob/master/.github/workflows/windows_release_nightly_pytorch.yml#L76)

Original

`2725 folders, 28488 files, 5665893548 bytes (5404 MiB)` - Compressed `1,527,840,768 (1457 MiB)`

With exclusions

`1420 folders, 11010 files, 4677802384 bytes (4462 MiB)` - Compressed `1,449,537,536 (1382 MiB)`