Support Custom Query Type Format

**Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.**
I'm trying to integrate 3rd party types into clickhouse-connect. For example, `whenever.Instant`
I found them useful here:
https://clickhouse.com/docs/en/integrations/python#write-formats
https://clickhouse.com/docs/en/integrations/python#read-formats
The write-format could be related, but I found the query string formatting is its own function and rather limited.

**Describe the solution you'd like**
It would be best to add set_query_format, and refers to it when constructing query SQL.

**Describe alternatives you've considered**
I tried monkey-patching. I did patching format_bind_value and format_query_value. but the meanings of them are unclear.

Start by tracing how format_bind_value and format_query_value are used when constructing query SQL, since the issue identifies them as the current formatting points. Determine how a set_query_format API should integrate with that path, then verify that third-party types such as whenever.Instant can use custom query formatting without breaking existing queries.

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