[ServiceBus] Resetting TCL opts in async transport with custom endpoint causes error

To repro:
- Run the any async sample in parallel [with the amqp proxy](https://github.com/[richardpark-msft/priv-amqpfaultinjector](https://github.com/richardpark-msft/priv-amqpfaultinjector)). This requires setting SSLContext cert_verify to None and local custom endpoint.
- We see the following error:
```
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/home/swathip/repos/priv-amqpfaultinjector/samples/faultinjectorsample_python/auto_lock_renew_async.py", line 85, in
asyncio.run(renew_lock_on_message_received_from_non_sessionful_entity())
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/runners.py", line 44, in run
return loop.run_until_complete(main)
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/base_events.py", line 649, in run_until_complete
return future.result()
File "/home/swathip/repos/priv-amqpfaultinjector/samples/faultinjectorsample_python/auto_lock_renew_async.py", line 60, in renew_lock_on_message_received_from_non_sessionful_entity
async with servicebus_client.get_queue_sender(queue_name=QUEUE_NAME) as sender:
File "/home/swathip/repos/azure-sdk-for-python/sdk/servicebus/azure-servicebus/azure/servicebus/aio/_servicebus_sender_async.py", line 155, in __aenter__
await self._open_with_retry()
File "/home/swathip/repos/azure-sdk-for-python/sdk/servicebus/azure-servicebus/azure/servicebus/aio/_base_handler_async.py", line 386, in _open_with_retry
return await self._do_retryable_operation(self._open)
File "/home/swathip/repos/azure-sdk-for-python/sdk/servicebus/azure-servicebus/azure/servicebus/aio/_base_handler_async.py", line 261, in _do_retryable_operation
raise last_exception from None
azure.servicebus.exceptions.ServiceBusConnectionError: Failed to initiate the connection due to exception: [Errno 22] Invalid argument Error condition: amqp:socket-error.
Fatal error on SSL transport
protocol:
transport: <_SelectorSocketTransport closing fd=7>
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 924, in write
n = self._sock.send(data)
OSError: [Errno 9] Bad file descriptor

During handling of the above exception, another exception occurred:

Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/sslproto.py", line 690, in _process_write_backlog
self._transport.write(chunk)
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 930, in write
self._fatal_error(exc, 'Fatal write error on socket transport')
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 725, in _fatal_error
self._force_close(exc)
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 737, in _force_close
self._loop.call_soon(self._call_connection_lost, exc)
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/base_events.py", line 753, in call_soon
self._check_closed()
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/base_events.py", line 515, in _check_closed
raise RuntimeError('Event loop is closed')
RuntimeError: Event loop is closed
Fatal error on SSL transport
protocol:
transport: <_SelectorSocketTransport closing fd=8>
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 924, in write
n = self._sock.send(data)
OSError: [Errno 9] Bad file descriptor

During handling of the above exception, another exception occurred:

Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/sslproto.py", line 690, in _process_write_backlog
self._transport.write(chunk)
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 930, in write
self._fatal_error(exc, 'Fatal write error on socket transport')
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 725, in _fatal_error
self._force_close(exc)
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 737, in _force_close
self._loop.call_soon(self._call_connection_lost, exc)
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/base_events.py", line 753, in call_soon
self._check_closed()
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/base_events.py", line 515, in _check_closed
raise RuntimeError('Event loop is closed')
RuntimeError: Event loop is closed
Fatal error on SSL transport
protocol:
transport: <_SelectorSocketTransport closing fd=9>
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 924, in write
n = self._sock.send(data)
OSError: [Errno 9] Bad file descriptor

During handling of the above exception, another exception occurred:

Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/sslproto.py", line 690, in _process_write_backlog
self._transport.write(chunk)
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 930, in write
self._fatal_error(exc, 'Fatal write error on socket transport')
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 725, in _fatal_error
self._force_close(exc)
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 737, in _force_close
self._loop.call_soon(self._call_connection_lost, exc)
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/base_events.py", line 753, in call_soon
self._check_closed()
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/base_events.py", line 515, in _check_closed
raise RuntimeError('Event loop is closed')
RuntimeError: Event loop is closed
Fatal error on SSL transport
protocol:
transport: <_SelectorSocketTransport closing fd=10>
Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 924, in write
n = self._sock.send(data)
OSError: [Errno 9] Bad file descriptor

During handling of the above exception, another exception occurred:

Traceback (most recent call last):
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/sslproto.py", line 690, in _process_write_backlog
self._transport.write(chunk)
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 930, in write
self._fatal_error(exc, 'Fatal write error on socket transport')
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 725, in _fatal_error
self._force_close(exc)
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/selector_events.py", line 737, in _force_close
self._loop.call_soon(self._call_connection_lost, exc)
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/base_events.py", line 753, in call_soon
self._check_closed()
File "/usr/lib/python3.10/asyncio/base_events.py", line 515, in _check_closed
raise RuntimeError('Event loop is closed')
RuntimeError: Event loop is closed
```
- This error does not happen when [[this line](https://github.com/Azure/azure-sdk-for-python/blob/9379d2e3e384c02d3422caa3eef58a51a98a0708/sdk/servicebus/azure-servicebus/azure/servicebus/_pyamqp/aio/_transport_async.py#L265)] is commented out.

TODO:
- [ ] also investigate why stack trace doesn't show point of failure/error