Suggestion on settings for a large TCP server implementation

I've played around with DotNetty for a little bit now, and I have some questions that don't seem to be addressed by any of the documentation I've read, or any issues here.

Is there a resource that anyone can point me to that will help me to understand the configuration I should be running for a large TCP server? This is a TCP server that maintains several thousand (10k+) open TCP connections for a long period of time, sending and receiving data (and processing that data) constantly.

My server is minimally configured, and currently looks like this:

`

bossGroup = new MultithreadEventLoopGroup(1);
workerGroup = new MultithreadEventLoopGroup();

try
{
var bootstrap = new ServerBootstrap();
bootstrap.Group(bossGroup, workerGroup);

bootstrap.Channel();

bootstrap
.Option(ChannelOption.SoBacklog, 100)
.ChildHandler(new ActionChannelInitializer(InitializeChannel));

boundChannel = await bootstrap.BindAsync(port);
}
catch (Exception err)
{
throw err;
}

`

Any help, either suggestions or pointers to other resources, would be appreciated.

Thanks!