Run subdocument query middleware

**Do you want to request a *feature* or report a *bug*?**
bug or own stupidity

**What is the current behavior?**
findAndUpdateOne Hook fires on Document, but not on Subdoc / SubSub.

**If the current behavior is a bug, please provide the steps to reproduce.**

Note: Using NestJS, unsure if that changes anything.
```ts
//hero.schema.ts
export const HeroSchema = new Schema({
name: String,
attribute: AttributeSchema,
});

HeroSchema.pre('findOneAndUpdate', function (next) {
console.log('Updating Hero');
next()
});

export const HeroModel = model('Hero', HeroSchema);

//attribute.schema.ts
export const AttributeSchema = new Schema({
attributes: {
cou: SingleAttributeSchema,
sgc: SingleAttributeSchema,
}});

AttributeSchema.pre('findOneAndUpdate', function (next) {
console.log('Updating Attribute');
next();
});

export const AttributeModel = model(
'Attribute',
AttributeSchema,
);

//singleAttribute.schema.ts
export const SingleAttributeSchema = new Schema({
value: Number,
});

SingleAttributeSchema.pre('findOneAndUpdate', function (next) {
console.log('Updating SingleAttribute');
next()
});

export const SingleAttributeModel = model(
'SingleAttribute',
SingleAttributeSchema,
);

//hero.service.ts
flattenedData = {
name: 'ab',
'attribute.attributes.cou.value': 9,
'attribute.attributes.sgc.value': 12
}

findByIdAndUpdate(
id,
{$set: flattenedData},
)
.exec();
// --> 'Updating Hero'
// MISSING!!! --> 'Updating Attribute'
// MISSING!!! --> 'Updating SingleAttribute'
// MISSING!!! --> 'Updating SingleAttribute'
```

```json
//tsconfig.json
{
"compilerOptions": {
"module": "commonjs",
"declaration": true,
"removeComments": true,
"emitDecoratorMetadata": true,
"experimentalDecorators": true,
"allowSyntheticDefaultImports": true,
"target": "es2017",
"sourceMap": true,
"outDir": "./dist",
"baseUrl": "./",
"incremental": true,
"skipLibCheck": true,
"strictNullChecks": false,
"noImplicitAny": false,
"strictBindCallApply": false,
"forceConsistentCasingInFileNames": false,
"noFallthroughCasesInSwitch": false
}
}
```

**What is the expected behavior?**
Sub-Doc and Sub-Sub Hook fire as well.

**What are the versions of Node.js, Mongoose and MongoDB you are using? Note that "latest" is not a version.**
Node 16.13.0
Mongoose ^6.0.13
MongDB 4.4

Start with the hero.schema.ts, attribute.schema.ts, singleAttribute.schema.ts, and hero.service.ts reproduction, then run the findByIdAndUpdate example. Trace Mongoose query middleware and nested subdocument handling to establish the current behavior. Done means the expected middleware behavior for the document, subdocument, and nested subdocuments is covered by a regression test.

Written by the indexing model from the issue text.