[BUG] Typehinting session parameter pulls in query parameters

**Describe the bug**
If you type hint the session parameter in a route function query parameters from the request get added to the session. Remove the type hinting and the query parameters don't get added.

In v0.12.44, the change "Add all HTTP request param handling to websockets too" refactored the parameter handling functions. The key problematic line introduced is in _find_ps:

```python
async def _find_ps(conn, data, hdrs, params):
if conn.query_params: data |= dict(conn.query_params) # <-- merges query params into data
...
```

This merges all query parameters into the data dict before any handler parameters are resolved. The problem occurs in _find_p when it processes a session parameter — if the session type is treated as a body type (dict or similar), the contaminated data dict (now containing query params) gets used to populate it.

The session then ends up containing all query parameters, which gets serialized into the cookie by Starlette's SessionMiddleware, blowing past the cookie size limit and causing the session to be cleared on every request.

**Minimal Reproducible Example**
Provide a minimal code snippet that reproduces the issue. This is crucial for us to understand and fix the bug quickly.

```python
from fasthtml.common import APIRouter, Request

router = APIRouter()

@router("/broken", ["GET"])
def get_video(request: Request, session: dict):
# session will contain any query parameters from the request.

@router("/works", ["GET"])
def get_video(request: Request, session):
# session will not contain query parameters from the request.
```

**Expected behavior**
I wouldn't expect typing the session parameter to change what's provided in the session parameter.

**Environment Information**
Please provide the following version information:
- fastlite version:0.2.4
- fastcore version:1.12.26
- fasthtml version:>=0.12.44

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- [x] I have provided a minimal reproducible example
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