Standard timeout related messages; yes?

Pushing a bunch of traffic and just wanted to make sure these are normal..

```
2026/03/16 17:03:08.137309 INFO entering udp listener loop prefix=dnsproxy addr=[::]:5358
2026/03/16 17:03:08.137466 INFO entering listener loop prefix=dnsproxy proto=tcp addr=[::]:5358

2026/03/16 17:18:53.662650 ERROR exchange failed prefix=dnsproxy upstream=https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query question=";ocsp2.apple.com.\tIN\t A" duration=3.215535ms err="requesting https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query: Get_0rtt \"https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query?dns=AAABAAABAAAAAAABBW9jc3AyBWFwcGxlA2NvbQAAAQABAAApCAAAAIAAAAA\": H3 error (0x5)"

2026/03/16 17:19:06.008384 ERROR exchange failed prefix=dnsproxy upstream=quic://dns.quad9.net:853 question=";entitlements.itunes.apple.com.\tIN\t A" duration=11.773213ms err="from quic://dns.quad9.net:853: reading response length: stream 0 canceled by remote with error code 5"

2026/03/16 17:19:16.512259 ERROR exchange failed prefix=dnsproxy upstream=quic://dns.quad9.net:853 question=";p19-buy-lb.itunes-apple.com.akadns.net.\tIN\t HTTPS" duration=13.932493ms err="from quic://dns.quad9.net:853: reading response length: stream 0 canceled by remote with error code 5"

2026/03/16 17:19:48.583657 ERROR exchange failed prefix=dnsproxy upstream=https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query question=";location.life360.com.\tIN\t HTTPS" duration=2.191445ms err="requesting https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query: Get_0rtt \"https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query?dns=AAABAAABAAAAAAABCGxvY2F0aW9uB2xpZmUzNjADY29tAABBAAEAACkIAAAAgAAAAA\": H3 error (0x5)"

2026/03/16 17:22:45.147886 ERROR exchange failed prefix=dnsproxy upstream=quic://dns.quad9.net:853 question=";location.life360.com.\tIN\t A" duration=18.866594ms err="from quic://dns.quad9.net:853: reading response length: stream 0 canceled by remote with error code 5"

2026/03/16 17:22:45.191834 ERROR exchange failed prefix=dnsproxy upstream=quic://dns.quad9.net:853 question=";haproxy-ingress-portcullis.life360.com.cdn.cloudflare.net.\tIN\t HTTPS" duration=10.137471ms err="from quic://dns.quad9.net:853: reading response length: stream 0 canceled by remote with error code 5"

2026/03/16 17:22:45.201175 ERROR exchange failed prefix=dnsproxy upstream=https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query question=";haproxy-ingress-portcullis.life360.com.cdn.cloudflare.net.\tIN\t HTTPS" duration=9.241379ms err="requesting https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query: Get_0rtt \"https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query?dns=AAABAAABAAAAAAABGmhhcHJveHktaW5ncmVzcy1wb3J0Y3VsbGlzB2xpZmUzNjADY29tA2NkbgpjbG91ZGZsYXJlA25ldAAAQQABAAApCAAAAIAAAAA\": H3 error (0x5)"

2026/03/16 17:26:43.320693 ERROR exchange failed prefix=dnsproxy upstream=quic://dns.quad9.net:853 question=";ssl.gstatic.com.\tIN\t A" duration=15.457099ms err="from quic://dns.quad9.net:853: reading response length: stream 4 canceled by remote with error code 5"

2026/03/16 17:35:57.154715 ERROR exchange failed prefix=dnsproxy upstream=quic://dns.quad9.net:853 question=";gspe35-ssl.ls.apple.com.\tIN\t HTTPS" duration=16.736995ms err="from quic://dns.quad9.net:853: reading response length: stream 0 canceled by remote with error code 5"

2026/03/16 17:35:57.156659 ERROR exchange failed prefix=dnsproxy upstream=https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query question=";gspe35-ssl.ls.apple.com.\tIN\t HTTPS" duration=1.911999ms err="requesting https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query: Get_0rtt \"https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query?dns=AAABAAABAAAAAAABCmdzcGUzNS1zc2wCbHMFYXBwbGUDY29tAABBAAEAACkIAAAAgAAAAA\": H3 error (0x5)"

2026/03/16 17:49:33.384081 ERROR exchange failed prefix=dnsproxy upstream=https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query question=";cresg.waze.com.\tIN\t HTTPS" duration=8.357052ms err="requesting https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query: Get_0rtt \"https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query?dns=AAABAAABAAAAAAABBWNyZXNnBHdhemUDY29tAABBAAEAACkIAAAAgAAAAA\": H3 error (0x5)"

2026/03/16 17:49:33.384236 ERROR exchange failed prefix=dnsproxy upstream=https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query question=";inbox-na.waze.com.\tIN\t A" duration=3.864892ms err="requesting https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query: Get_0rtt \"https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query?dns=AAABAAABAAAAAAABCGluYm94LW5hBHdhemUDY29tAAABAAEAACkIAAAAgAAAAA\": H3 error (0x5)"

2026/03/16 17:50:14.323893 ERROR exchange failed prefix=dnsproxy upstream=https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query question=";yt3.ggpht.com.\tIN\t A" duration=2.082956ms err="requesting https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query: Get_0rtt \"https://dns.quad9.net:443/dns-query?dns=AAABAAABAAAAAAABA3l0MwVnZ3BodANjb20AAAEAAQAAKQgAAACAAAAA\": H3 error (0x5)"
```

other random github go based projects talked about rmem_max and wmem_max

```
sysctl -a | grep 'rmem_max\|wmem_max'
net.core.rmem_max = 16777216
net.core.wmem_max = 16777216
```

Thank you in advance.